Top Poker Etiquette Tips

Poker is a psychological game of skill, strategy, and luck. But, there’s also a fair bit of respect sprinkled in, too! Without proper online poker etiquette, irresponsible or unknowing players can ruin what would otherwise be a fair and enjoyable game of poker.
On this page, we’ll showcase several important poker do’s and don’ts for both physical poker tournaments and online poker tables. We’ll cover everything from stalling and colluding to chat spamming and multi-tabling.
Online Poker Etiquette
When discussing online poker etiquette tips, the first things that pop to mind are stalling, chat spamming, collusion, disconnections, and multi-table malpractices. These aren’t necessarily against poker table rules, but negatively impact the gameplay experience of everyone else at the table.
With that out of the way, we’d like to showcase five poker do’s and don’ts that will help you not be an a**hole when playing poker online.

Quit Stalling
No matter what sort of a poker table you’re playing at, be it live or online, don’t be that guy who always takes as much time as he can every single turn. You don’t need that much time to think about your move; you’re either doing that to annoy your opponents or make them think you have some special strategy going on.
Either way, it’s unprofessional, annoying, and outright rude. If you keep stalling, you’ll get dirty looks and the entire table will breathe a collective sigh of relief once you’re down and out.

Spamming the Chat
This one goes without saying, but we still see many people spam the chat all the time. Spamming, in its own right, is annoying and can get you kicked off the table, but there are far worse chat-related things than that.
We often see people berating their opponents, calling them names and showing off a vast repertoire of insults. Don’t be like that. Regardless if you’ve won or lost, have the decency in you to remain polite and avoid losing your temper.

Never Team Up with Your Buddies
Online poker, whether for real money or just for fun, is a great pastime. It requires the right mindset, focus, strategizing, and a fair bit of psychological aspects too. But, if you’re at the table and you notice a few players are soft-playing each other, it’s a sure-sign they’re colluding.
If you don’t want it to happen to you, don’t do it to other people. Be the change you want to see – never collude with your buddies and team up on other players. It provides an unfair advantage and completely ruins the gameplay for other players.
Long story short, if you’re teaming up with your buddies when playing poker online, you’re part of the problem!

Constantly Disconnecting
Make sure your connection is up to snuff. If your ping is too high and your connection keeps going on and off, it’s best to call it a day and play another time.
Constantly disconnecting produces delays and auto-folds, which ruins the game for everyone. So, just call it a day and be done with it!
Or, if you can, switch your connection to your phone and use that to connect to your preferred poker room. You can do so either via Bluetooth, WiFi, or USB cable. If your primary network is too clogged, switching over to your phone’s LTE or 5G network should do the trick.

Playing at Too Many Tables Simultaneously
Here’s another common online poker etiquette malpractices – simultaneously playing at too many tables. I can totally understand players who play at 2 or 3 tables simultaneously. That’s doable; I’ve been there, done that.
However, I’ve recently found out that several buddies of mine play 5+ tables at the same time.
“But what if you can’t make it to a table in time?” – I asked.
“It’s all good – the game auto-checks or auto-folds if there’s a call to be made”. – they all replied in a similar manner.
What this does, though, is delay the game for everyone else at the table. I can understand going through 30 seconds of LITERALLY NOTHING once every 20 minutes… but having to go through that every few rounds is outright agonizing.
Cultural & Tournament Etiquette
Playing with your buddies at your parents’ garage doesn’t have the same set of strict rules as playing in a real tournament downtown.
Still, you shouldn’t be rude no matter where you’re playing, which is why we wanted to point you in the right direction in terms of poker etiquette tips.
In a real tournament, players need to adhere to strict poker table rules including strict blinds, time limits, and antes. The organizers are in charge of keeping the atmosphere as professional as possible, while minimizing distractions and delays.
When playing with your buddies, the structure and rules are often much looser, depending on how serious you are about the gameplay. In my experience, garage-bound poker sessions have symbolic wagers and are more focused on socializing than winning the game. Nothing is off the table, including banter, alcohol, and every possible distraction you can think of.
Biggest Etiquette Mistakes to Avoid
Things like stringing your bets, using the phone while waiting for your turn, or the good old hit and run techniques usually aren’t against the rules. However, they’re frowned upon and will make you look like a d**khead.
The thing is – we often see people do these exact things, seemingly without even knowing they’re being rude. So, for that reason, here’s a glimpse at the five unwritten poker table rules we see people break all the time:

Don’t string Your Bets
First, let’s define what stringing your bets really means:
Stringing your bets represents the act of adding more chips without fully declaring (AKA verbalizing) your action, which is what some players use to assess how a specific player reacts to their turn.
Here’s a clear cut example of string betting: Player A wants to know how player B will react to a call, so he says “I call,” then waits a few seconds, before grabbing his chips and continuing with “and raise for X amount”.
If this isn’t the player’s first time of doing so, chances are the dealer will accept the bet as a call and won’t take the remaining chips. In my opinion, the dealer has every right to do so!

Keep Your Phone Off the Table
This is just common sense, but I reckon some folks still haven’t got the memo. If you’re playing at a local tournament, the first thing you should do after taking a seat is put your phone on mute and throw it in your pocket.
The table is not a place for your phone!
“But other people do it too, why shouldn’t I?” Well, if other people decide to jump off a bridge, would you join them?
Jokes aside; having your phone on the table is not just a needless distraction but somewhat rude too, even if it’s in DND mode. So, just throw it in your pocket, forget about it, and focus on the game.

Running Your Mouth After Folding
We often see people discussing their hand right after they folded. This ruins the remainder of the round for other players because knowing which cards are out of the equation can change the complexity of the round.
This isn’t just an online poker etiquette tip; it works for real tournaments too. If you’ve folded, just discard your hand and analyze the action. Don’t run your mouth and share which cards you’ve folded. That’s rude, unnecessary, and oftentimes a valid reason for you to be kicked out of the game.

Hit and Run Technique
The so-called hit and run poker technique revolves around players taking a seat at the table, forcing a big play within their first few hands, take a massive pot then run off to do their bidding elsewhere.
Why is this wrong? Well, there’s nothing inherently wrong about this. It’s not against the rules. However, it’s considered fairly rude, especially to the player who was on the receiving end of the big pot. At least give the guy a few more rounds so he can try to win it back. That’s the least you can do.

Not Handling Your Chips and Cards Correctly
Here are a few examples of what we mean by this:
- Not positioning or guarding your cards properly can make the dealer think you’ve folded, so they’ll take your cards away and count you out of the next round.
- Not verbalizing the amount of your raise and stringing your bets (throwing them in several batches) can (and most likely will) piss the dealer off.
Always be respectful to the dealer and your opponents. That’s the only way you’ll get nothing but respect in return.
Conclusion
There you have it, lads! Those were the most important poker etiquette tips we wanted to share with you. If you play by these unwritten rules, you and everyone else at the table are going to have a solid experience.
Whether we’re talking about a casual poker night with your buddies or an online poker game, the unwritten rules are always there for a reason.
After all, you don’t want to be the player everyone is glad to see knocked out of the tournament…
That said, always be respectful, don’t take too long to make your decision, and always verbalize your decision before you touch your chips or cards. These simple poker do’s and don’ts will show everyone you know what you’re doing!